It's okay to not have a girlfriend. It's perfectly fine to be real friends, and maintain a respectful, caring, cordial, platonic friendship with someone who you love and or like. It's okay to love someone, and NOT be in a committed romantic relationship with them. It's 100% acceptable to see qualities in someone, like them, enjoy their energy and decide that you do NOT want to engage in a relationship with them. There's such thing as a universe, and the universe has a dance. This dance can't be memorized, it can't be studied. It can be respected. So this is me respecting the universe. This is me seeing the universe’s dance, and not fighting the currents. Because the universe is never wrong, despite what our primitive emotional hearts may expect.
IT'S ALSO PERFECTLY OKAY TO BE COMMITTED TO WRK. IT'S OKAY TO BE TRANSPARENT. AND NOT TRANSPARENT AS IT PERTAINS TO PROJECTING MY STANCE AND ENERGY, BUT ALSO SIMULTANEOUSLY OPEN TO RECEIVING THE ENERGY AND VIEWS OF OTHERS. IT'S OKAY TO KNOW WHAT YOU WANT FOR YOURSELF, AND COMMIT TO OBTAINING THAT, AND THOSE WHO ARE SUPPORTIVE OF YOUR JOURNEY TO ACTUALIZE YOUR VISION(S).
IT'S OKAY TO BE KEEP YOUR HEAD DOWN AND FOCUS ON THE TASK AT HAND. IT'S OKAY TO NOT BE CONSUMED WITH THE THOUGHTS OF TOMORROW, AND BE WHOLLY COMMITTED TO THE PRESENT MOMENT. IT'S OKAY TO CONNECT WITH WOMEN YOU SHARE A LIKE MIND WITH, AND NOT EXPECT ANYTHING FURTHER FROM THEM. IT'S OKAY TO HAVE FRIENDLY CONVERSATIONS WITH PEOPLE, SHARE VIEWS AND HAVE A VIBRANT CONNECTION, AND NOT DATE THEM.
THESE DAYS I FIND PEACE IN BEING CONNECTED MORE TO MYSELF THAN ONE PARTICULAR PERSON. I ENJOY BUILDING WITH LIKES OF MY CLIENTS, BLACK ROSES NYC, MY HIGH SCHOOL ATHLETES, AND GREATER RUNNING & FITNESS COMMUNITY THAN I DO DATING, OR TRYING TO FURTHER ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE. AND THAT'S OKAY WITH ME. BECAUSE THE ONLY PERSON I WAKE UP TO, THE ONLY PERSON I AM OBLIGATED TO, AND THE ONLY PERSON WHO DESERVES TO BE AT PEACE IN THIS LIFE IS ME, AND THAT'S OKAY.
I MADE A COMMITMENT TO MYSELF TO STAY TRUE TO THE GOOD. TO BE TRUE TO MYSELF, AND NEVER AT ANY POINT, PLACE ANYONE ABOVE THE #GOODWRK THAT I DO. AND I WILL CONTINUE TO PRESS ON, HEAD DOWN, EYES FOCUSED ON WHAT'S IN FRONT OF ME